Saturday, February 20, 2010

ABC Date Challenge

Man, I love my husband.  Look how pulled together he looks and how dorky I look! Muse lyrics are running through my head:

I thought I was a fool for no one, ohhh baby I'm a fool for you ...



P.S. This photo was from my 10 year reunion.  My friend Jina planned the event and found these glasses. They were a big hit, obviously.

Anyway, Matt and I did this date as a part of our Valentine's Celebration.

Here's what you do:

  1. Write each letter of the alphabet on a separate post-it note.
  2. Each couple draws 13 letters.
  3. For each letter, come up with a silly or romantic date event you can do RIGHT NOW.
  4. There are bonus points for doubling or tripling the letters--Scattergories style
  5. Put the letters in a hat and draw them out one at a time, doing what the slips of paper say.
  6. No one wins, no one loses.  What am I saying, it's so much fun you'll both win!
Some of our letters:
C--cuddle on the couch
D--double dog dare you to ______________
E--eat dessert
H--hold hands
K--karaoke
P--play poker
Q--Quietly whispers a compliment 

Thursday, February 18, 2010

Things I Love--Cloth Diapers

There is a pretty big debate about cloth diapers.

Side #1--Cloth diapers take a lot of water to make; they take a lot of water to wash; they take a lot of time to care clean and fold; they make your kids smelly ...

Side #2--Cloth diapers require less water to wash than it takes disposable diapers to be made; cloth diapers have no harsh chemicals; cloth diapers don't fill up landfills; cloth diapers help kids potty train faster ...

In true Reagan fashion, I'm gonna tell you what I think.

I had a friend tell me she was going to use cloth diapers and I told her she was nuts (sorry, Ami).  Then I met Rene and Beth who used them and they looked comfy and sweet. Both of these gals shared a lot of information with me so by the time I found out I was preggers with Pax, I decided to look into using them.  But then I teetered--would it be too much work?  At that time, Molly lovingly reminded me that I have a washing machine and dryer so unless I feared getting carpel tunnel from turning on the machines' buttons, I should drop the purse and get the diapers.  And I did.

The result?

Is Pax's 6 month old tushy bum not the cutest thing ever!  I could eat it up!



I LOVE cloth diapers.
                                          I think they are amazing.

  • They rarely leak (because I treat them very well).  
  • They are super affordable (though it's a lot of up front cost).  
  • The laundry is not overwhelming. 
  •  Pax's bum is always cushy and he has only had one diaper rash.  (And anyone who knows M.E. knows that she was super allergic to the chemicals in diapers and had such bad rashes that her bum lost chunks of skin and bled). 


I use BumGenius 3-n-1 cloth diapers.  I got them from Kelly's Closet I literally got the package below in "boy" colors and got the Twilight baby legs.  Super cute!



If you are interested in cloth diapers but scared about the prospect of trying them, contact me at whereisthemeinmommy@gmail.com  I'd love to chat with you about cloth diapers.

Oh ya, remember the gray area.  You can cloth diaper halfway--use cloth by day and disposable by night!

What about you?  Have tried cloth?  Why or why not?  What did you think?  Love 'em or leave 'em?

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

What I Think About--Reading the Bible in 90 Days

Element Church , our home church, issued a 90 Day Breaking Free Challenge.  As a part of this challenge, the pastoral staff challenged members to do or change something for 90 days.  Maybe it's breaking free of those blogs you keep reading Facebook games, kicking a bad habit, or praying more diligently.  In terms of change, Pastor Jeff encouraged folks to think about getting into the Word.  The church offered several reading plans: read the New Testament in 90 Days, Read every day for 90 days, and read the entire Bible in 90 days.

I've read the Bible cover to cover before but I'm generally on the one year path of doing so.  Lately my Bible reading has been more sporadic so I decided to read the Bible in 90 Days.  Yikes.

To do this I have to get up much earlier (between 5:30-6:00 am).  I read about 16 chapters a morning and it takes me roughly an hour.  I'm not gonna lie, it's intense.

I've not mentioned this to too many people but the folks who do know keep asking: Are you getting anything out of it?

So here's what I think.

I am spending time in the Word.  Yes, I'm getting something out of it.

In the past, I have had quiet moments in the Word where one passage could rock my world for hours.  Literally, one passage (FYI--right now that passage is Genesis 3:16 "your desire will be for your husband and he will rule over you"--WOW--what does this say about the fight over who wears the pants in the family?  A woman's control issues?  Can I get a YIKES! to that?).  While one passage or even verse can really speak to me, I'm not convinced that it means whole sections cannot.

Before I enter the Word I go before God asking for His will as I read.  I ask for guidance, for my mind to be opened, to hear and see His voice.  And He is meeting me where I am.

Maybe I am not getting as much as if I was reading very slowly (but how could I show it one way or the other?).  But on the other hand, maybe I'm getting more because I'm powering through on the grace of His Holy Spirit.  I'm coming to Him longing to know and understand.  He is graciously filling me.

I can't even begin to tell what I've learned in only 17 days.  My eyes have been opened to issues within my heart that need dealt with; I've come to understand areas where deception is destroying relationships that I'm apart of; I've been inspired that our God can and will overcome.  He is a big, big God.

90 Days will not be enough to soak it all in but it's a dang good start.

Are you interested?  Check here for the 3 reading plans.

Has anyone else done this?  What say you?

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Too Clean Tuesday--Crayon removal

After M.E.'s quiet time a few weeks ago I went into her room and found that she decorated the base of her window seat with blue crayon.  It was a beautiful, creative masterpiece and I regretted having to tell her that coloring on walls is specifically prohibited and that we'd have to clean the crayon off the wall (before dad saw it).

My sister loves the Magic Eraser for such tasks but I've yet to buy my first Magic Eraser (yes, I'm that cheap.  If you are shocked I'll send you my address and you can mail me one--ha ha).

Anyhow, if you are in this position and you don't have a Magic Eraser either, try to scrub the crayon off with EITHER (meaning, don't mix) ammonia on a clean, white cloth or a cloth and toothpaste.  Which ever you try, make sure you rinse the wall off when you're finished.

Worked for me.  Good luck getting it done!

Days of Play--What fits?

This activity helps children develop a sense of sizing.

There are two ways to play.

1.  Get several jars/vases and trace them on paper.  Talk with your child about what could fit in the jar.  Have him or her get the items and see if they will fit within the boundaries of what you traced.

2.  Get different sized jars, tupperware, etc., and let your child actually try to put stuff in there.  Beware--if you child is attached to something that goes in but not out, you might end up breaking a jar :)  My suggestion, do this only with wide-mouthed containers (like old Peanut butter jars) or plastic items you don't mind cutting (like a milk jug).

Monday, February 15, 2010

Time Management Junkie--Skill #1--The Priority List


A couple of years ago I took on too much at once.  Ever do that?  Anyhow, I ended up doing  a lot of stuff halfway.  I didn’t do a terrible job but I didn’t do any of it with excellence.   That is so not me.  One day when I was crying venting to Matt, he suggested I pull out of some of my obligations.  My initial thought--what?!?!  His stance: Better to give the work to someone who would do a great job than to rely on someone who didn’t have the energy to do her best.  This was my, “Aha, I need a priority list” moment.  Ever have one of those?



If you are feeling overwhelmed, busy, or stressed for time, might I suggest that you step inside yourself and inventory your priority list?  Here’s some truth. 

If everything is important, than nothing is.

What matters to you and what doesn’t?  I literally won’t sleep if the dishes aren’t done; that’s a hill I’ll die on.  Does is matter if I don’t know what I’m wearing tomorrow?  Not so much.  My day will be a disaster if I don’t know by 10 am what we are having for dinner.  Do I care if we have hot dogs for lunch?  Nope.  I will play with my children.  Period.  Do I care if the laundry is done?  It is preferable, but not mandatory.

Here’s my top 10 (in no specific order):
  • Good night’s rest
  • Quiet time for prayer, devotions, etc.
  • Solid, healthy breakfast (really, if I don't get some good protein in the a.m. I am NOT a pretty sight)
  • Dinner planned
  • Time to play with my children
  • Alone time with Matt
  • A hot shower
  • Dinner as a family around the table
  • A clean (looking) house (this is where the dishes come in).
  • A chance to visit with an adult


I’m not overly precise and picky about how these are done (meaning my quiet time could be at 6 am one morning and 9 pm the next day. Sometimes alone time and prayer time are done in the hot shower). The point is I have priorities but, though more solid than some of my negotiables, they are still kind-of negotiable.

Are you wondering why a list helps?  Well, if you are running out of time,  you do your priorities, not the negotiable but you can't do that until you know which are which.

So make a list right now of 10 things that HAVE to get done every day for your day to run smoothly.  Think on this; mull it over with your husband.  Maybe each write a list and compare them. Create a couples list--what needs do you both have and how can you help one another.

Make your list and then come back here and share it.

Sunday, February 14, 2010

Days of Play--Cookie Decorating

Happy Valentine's Day!



Today is very special at our house because Mr. Gooey Guster is being dedicated this morning.
We are SOOO excited.  Afterwards our friends and family are dropping by for a soup bar, homemade rolls, and fellowship!



If your day is more low key, I suggest making some sugar cookies and decorating them.  This is a great recipe .  They won't be cut outs but you can still frost and sprinkle them!  Mmmmmm....

Saturday, February 13, 2010

Days of Play--Hide and Seek

We all know how this one goes so get silly and play.  Work on counting, being quiet, object permanence (for wee ones), and belly laughing.

For Younger Kids
Instead of hiding people, hide a toy, count, and look for it together.

For Older Kids
Even if your kids can play this alone, they'll have more fun if you play.  Hide in really hard spots so they'll have good places to go next time their friends are over.

**This is an excellent time to remind children that they should NEVER hide in the fridge, freezer, storage tubs, cooler chests, or any other place that could lead to suffocation**

What cookin' at my house this week?

So here is the Kaufman menu for this week:

  • Monday--Telluride Black Bean Bake (similar)
  • Tuesday--Honey Glazed Chicken  and rice
  • Wednesday--Chocolate Chipotle Fajitas (from my cooking guru Sarah--beg her to post the recipe on her blog )
  • Thursday--Chicken Oreganato
  • Friday--French Dips with homemade hoagies
  • Saturday--Spanish Rubbed Chicken (we didn't eat this last week because of our Valentine's Day dinner)


Enjoy!

Friday, February 12, 2010

Cupidity

Stupidity + Love = Cupidity

I just saw that word and loved it.  It's no secret I love to make up words and this one is brilliant!

Cupidity--I've so been there.  Of course, so has Matt and since this is my blog I'm at liberty to rat him out with few repercussions.
He is so mansome (handsome+man=mansome)


As a part of my Spy School he made me take a quiz about him.  However, he didn't put one right answer, he made it a trick quiz where I had to pick the "most" right answer (very lawyerish of him).

For example:
1.  What is my favorite food?
       A.  Filet Mignon (P.S. One of our early dates he actually pronounced the G in mignon)
       B.  Grandma's fluffy salad (oh, remind me to post this later.  Yummy!)
       C.  Keebler Elf Cookies (Mmmmm)
       D.  Pancakes with peanut butter (ick but whatever)

The correct answer is TACOS--not listed at all.

Needless to say, by the end of the quiz I was convinced I'd been married to a stranger for 7 years and was seconds away from a tantrum furious.  He meant this to be a fun, silly date idea.  I felt like he'd made of fool of me.  I can laugh at it now because that was a moment where Matt demonstrated cupidity perfectly (he does so well most of the time!).

Ah to be fair, my biggest mistake in cupidity is forgetting that I need to woo Matt just like he woos me.  He's a sucker for romance, too (but he'd likely not admit it!).

Ready to confess a moment in cupidity?  Please do.  It'll make us all feel better ...

Happy Valentines to the man who makes me feel cupidity all over!  

P.S.  This photo was taken in Vedauwoo, WY.  It's so beautiful it looks fake but I assure you, it is real!

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Date night In--43 Kisses


My husband and I just did this (his idea) and we had SO much fun.

Go here and print off the coupons for 43 kisses and gather some candies (m&ms, Skittles, mints, licorice, Hershey's Kisses), and something to drink (we had ice water and the ice came in handy).

Set the mood! Turn on some music (may I suggest the Rob Pattinson station or Iron and Wine station on Pandora ?), make a comfy spot on the floor, turn off the lights, and light the fire (or some candles).

Take turns drawing different kisses out of a hat.  Kiss your spouse as indicated and then discuss what you liked/didn't like (although kissing is like pizza, even when it's bad, it's still pretty dang good!).

We laughed, we made up our own kisses, we spent some quality time together.  Ahhhhhh.





Things I Love--My Singing Voice

Matt is pretty sweet and always comments on how "cute" my singing voice is. Of course anyone married knows that "cute" can mean "Wow--how amazing!" or it can mean "Aww, it's nice of you to try."  In the case of my singing, cute means the latter.

I really don't care that I can't find rhythm or carry a tune.  I sound better than a rock and I make a joyful noise.  I sing in the car, in the shower, in the kitchen, while I run, while I bike, and while I shop.  I make up lyrics and use singing to promote fun clean up.  I play some wicked awesome air guitar.

I sound terrible and I know it but I don't care.

Here's to singing without regard for the ears next to you!

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

What I Think About--My Baby Can Read


My Baby Can Read!  But should s/he?

Let me first say that I do not have these “reading” tools but I know some gals who do and I’ve seen them advertised.

As a parent and educator I am against the "Baby Can Read” tools and here is why:

First I think we should question WHY it matters if baby can read.  So you can brag, “MY baby can read”?  So you don’t have to read to baby?   Because the advertising is so effective that you think you are actually harming your baby if he or she can’t read before s/he is two?  There are times when I think we want to know if something can be done so much that we forget if it should be done.  This is one of those cases.

Before I explain why I do not like this program, let me note some positives.

A child who is already reading when s/he enters school will likely be successful at reading in school. The prior ability gives them more confidence in reading and promotes success. (Think back on your education years.  If you were in the advanced reading group, you felt pretty good.  If you were in the slow readers group, you felt pretty bad). 

This being the case, many parents want to help their children read but don’t know how to so they rely on programs like this to teach their kids and the programs are great at getting parents involved in their children’s education.  This is a positive step and most successful children in school have parents who tutor them at home.

While the product does have some positive qualities, let me explain why I do not favor the program.

First, this educational “tool” is marketed in hopes of scaring parents.  If we don’t use the tools, if our babies can’t read then they won’t have the best advantages in life and will be behind.  But is this true or is it marketing? 

Secondly, studies have shown that true reading (and educational) success develops out of a love of reading, not from memorization and words.  Memorization does NOT equal education.  Further research indicates that by ten years of age, early readers are at the same level as the late readers, IF they both love to read. It equals out.

Thirdly, pushing children (especially boys) to read too early can make children hate to read.  Who wants to raise a child who hates to read?

Other data indicates that children who read too early can have eye-tracking problems and can lead to visual issues. Our eyes are meant to go across the page to read a sentence around seven years of age, which is why books for young readers keep sentences short so that young readers are not reading across the page but just one or two words at a time.

Fourthly, I have no doubt that children using the My Baby Can Read  program will learn the words/pictures/actions and they might be able to call out words on a page.  But reading is more than saying words.  Need proof?  Read and do the following:

Por favor, abra la ventana, sacar la cabeza, y gritar me encanta el pastel de queso de chocolate.

Chances are if you took Spanish in high school you could remember some of the words or at least pronounce them.  But do you understand what you just read?  Did you open the window, stick your head out, and scream, “I love chocolate cheesecake?”  If not then you understand what I am talking about.  Just because your baby can “call out” sight words does NOT mean he or she understands what he or she is reading.

Many educators are worried about the effects of teaching children to read quickly without developing comprehension.  This program will exacerbate this problem.

Finally, our children will learn all of these things (reading, phonics, math, astro-physics) in their time. Its called Developmentally Appropriate Practice. Let your children develop at the pace that is right for them.

M.E. "reading" her book.  She's learning about people, shapes, and colors without watching TV, decoding or memorizing (because who wants to do more work than necessary on the potty?).




My bottom line
Research consistently shows that reading, talking and singing to children helps them develop language and reading skills.  Our little kids need to be little. They learn more through play, exploration, and interaction than through any other tool—including watching “educational videos” (and remember the AAP suggests NO screen time for kids under two).

As a mom, I’ve made it my mission to encourage my children to love books and reading by reading to them and letting them see me read. 

My baby can’t read! 
My 4 year old can’t read!
But I can read and I love it!  So let’s cuddle up and rock some Peter Rabbit!


M.E. and Daddy cuddle and read.


Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Too Clean Tuesday--Shine Your Sink

You are going to think I'm type A, unbalanced, nuts a little over the top but for some reason, having a shiny kitchen sink seems to make my day/week/month better.  I found the original directions for sink shining here but I modified them (mainly because I don't want to wait an hour for the bleach to work and like to do both sides of my sink at once!).

So here's how to get a shiny sink Reagan style.

  • Remove dishes from your sink and rinse food gunk down drain. Run disposal.
  • Put in sink plugs.
  • Fill BOTH sides of the sink with hot water (as hot as possible).
  • Add 1 cup of bleach OR ammonia to each side and continue filling with water until water is at the brim.  (Side note: I perfer the ammonia to the bleach because if you drip the bleach water on you or a sink towel you'll get a bleach stain.)
  • Let your sinks soak for 15+ minutes.  (Let's be honest, if you sink is pretty nasty soaking might take an hour).
  • Using tongs OR dishwashing gloves, pull the plugs.  Remember the water is HOT. *If you used bleach DON'T touch your clothing!*
  • Rinse Why rinse? Because you'll be adding other cleaners and you can't mix bleach/ammonia cleaning products.  It produces deadly gasses--much more serious than those produced from too much refried beans and greens.
  • Get a rag and some Comet (or Ajax or a non-abrasive cleaner) and scrub the inside of your sink.  A sludgy grey goo will come off.  You never knew that was on there, did you? Don't use steel wool or harsh abrasives--they will scratch your sink).
  • Rinse.  Yes, again.  I use Comet with bleach and I don't want to mix that with the ammonia-based Windex that I use.
  • Dry with a towel.
  • Now spray your sink with a glass cleaner and wipe it out with a paper towel.

Your sink should be super shiny now.

To maintain the look, simply wash all your dishes in the bathtub.  Just kidding.

Every time you use your sink, DRY it (leave a towel right by the--even your kids will catch on but I make no promises about husbands.  I'm not sure my DH has ever noticed that the sink is shiny).

If you don't want to maintain it, do this once every month or so.  You'll be glad you did (especially after you see the grey goo.  Part of you will always think--ick, the sink is filthy unless I can see my face in it!).

Monday, February 8, 2010

How to Become a Time Management Junkie--Part I

My shortfalls are many.

I'm either neurotic or I'm crazy.  But then, I repeat myself.


  • I talk too loud, too much, and too often—mostly about myself and my family (which might explain this blog).
  •  I am very sarcastic. This can be funny when properly used.  When used in battle, it can be downright destructive.
  •  I have a porcupine personality.  Great to see—hard to get close.  I’m not sure why but I’ve always kept people at an arms length and am very slow to warm up.  On the other hand, once we’re close, I stick by you and am hard to get away from (sort of like pulling quills out of a dog’s nose).
  •  I really like things done the right way (read: my way).
  •  I am overly quirky.  I can’t sleep if all the light switches aren’t going the same direction, spoons/forks/knives can never touch in the dishwasher, and wars have been fought over bed making, which direction the open end of the pillows should face and how curtains should be drawn. 
  •  I can be critical and judgmental.  See above. 

One area, however, where I consider myself mostly successful is in time management.

My personal philosophy: When God created time, He created enough of it



Insert warning.  I’m going to be a bit raw and honest in my forthcoming statements.  If you are thin skinned, stop here.  If you want to read it and it makes you mad, sorry.  Please send hate mail to my PR person.

Probably my #1 pet peeve are the people who say, “I don’t have time to ____exercise, read to my children, make a healthy meal, mail a birthday card, pray …_____.”  This extends to the “I’m too busy” people, too.

What I’d really like to explain to those folks is:
  • You are not lacking any more time than the rest of us; you are misusing your time more than the rest of us.
  •  We are all busy.  I know retired people who are busy.  Until you walk eight miles to get water and then carry it back eight miles to the home you hand built where you’ll boil the water over a fire made of sticks you hunted for so you can hand wash your only other set of clothing which you will line dry as you go work in your small garden and care for your animals, the product of which you will use to make your meal from scratch, I don’t want to hear it. 
  • What doesn’t make your “To Do” list says more about you than what does.
  • We are not too busy.  We are too self-important.
Phew.

So I can manage time but I’m not perfect at it.  In fact, I am VERY much a work in progress but I’d like to share some skills and routines that help me decide how to divide my time, talents, and treasures (and still have time to talk to my sister on the phone a couple times a day). 

Okay, after posting the mullet photo twice, I decided I better put in a photo of 
my sister when she looks hot!


Check back for more information on skills and routines I find invaluable.


Days of Play--Spaghetti Monsters

Tactile play is an amazing way to help your children explore and learn.  In this day of play, take 1/4 box of spaghetti noodles and cook them according to directions.  Drain and **cool** them.

Put the cooled noodles in a big bowl and let your kids squish around in them.

For Younger Children:
This is perfectly acceptable for little ones but you will need to watch for noodle pieces heading toward the mouth.

For Older Kids:
Give each child their own bowl.  Have them wash their hands.  Add pasta sauce and an art smock.  Presto! Lunch you can play with!

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Souper Bowl Sunday

Today is the Super Bowl and I must admit that I'm not exactly a fan of pro football.  That being said, I am rooting for the Saints since this is their first Super Bowl bid and the Colts won a few years ago.

Geaux Saints! (only Matt will understand the irony of why I chose to spell Go that way).



Anyhow, what really matters to me on this momentous day in American football (that we have momentous days in sports I'll leave for another day), is the FOOD.

Not too many years back I made Rilda's Kickin' Chicken Corn Chowder for a Souper Bowl party and it won first place. I got a big (and I mean BIG) trophy and everything.

But today's soup is Taco Soup courtesy of Matt's Aunt Amy.  We'll be having chips and queso and so dipping veggies as well.  Mmmmmm.

Amy Brock's Taco Soup


Ingredients
2 lb. ground beef (or turkey)
1 chopped onion
2 pkgs dry Ranch Dressing
2 pkgs taco seasoning mix
3 cans chicken broth
2 cans black beans (drained and rinsed)
2 cans northern beans (drained and rinsed)
2 cans pinto beans (drained and rinsed)
2 cans Rotel tomatoes (mild if you need it!)
2 c. frozen corn

Directions

  1. Brown ground beef and drain off the grease.  
  2. Add onion, Ranch and taco seasonings to the beef and mix well.
  3. Add broth, beans, tomatoes, and corn.
  4. Bring to a boil.
  5. Reduce heat.  Stir and simmer for 30 minutes.

Serve it up!
Serve with freshly shredded cheese, Frito Scoops, and green onions.  Sour cream makes this divine.

Freeze it!
This is a large batch so if you'd like, set half aside to cool.  Once cooled, put into a gallon freezer bag, lay flat, and freeze.  To reheat, thaw and warm.

**Why cool it first?  If you put this into the oven hot it will produce steam which will freeze as crystals**

Don't like meat?
This is a great vegetarian meal if you replace the chicken broth with vegetable broth and remove the beef.  If you desire, Portabella mushrooms make a mean beef substitute!

Enjoy your Super Bowl Sunday!





Saturday, February 6, 2010

A Day in the Life

Here is a breakdown of what my day looks like, in response to a request from Heather.  Please keep in mind that this is what works for me and my family but might not work for you.

Break down of my average day
  • 6:00 am—Wake up, devotional/prayer time
  • 7:00 am—Get children, make beds, and feed kids breakfast, take out dinner
  • 7:30 am—Do morning make-up and dress routine
  • 8:00 am—eat breakfast, read the paper
  • 8:15 am—clean up breakfast dishes, get kids cleaned up and dressed
  • 8:40 am—Take M.E. to school (storytelling and free play)
  • 9:00 am—put Pax down to nap (M.E.’s solo-play time)
  • 9:10 am—start a load of laundry, clean routine, facebook/e-mail if time
  • 10:00 am—switch laundry, homework, computer time (Day of Play time)
  • 10:30-11:00 am—get Pax and feed him
  • 11:15 am—Pick M.E. up from school (free time or errand running)
  • 12:00 pm—lunch, clean up, and story time
  • 1:00 pm—naptime for Pax/quiet time for M.E.
  • 1:00-2:00 pm—House Zone cleaning, switch/fold laundry—phone time
  • 2:00-3:00 pm—homework, blog/internet/read
  • 3:00 pm—get kids up and give them a snack
  • 3:30 pm—Intentional Play Time
  • 4:30 pm—bath time (M.E. stays in forever!)/ Pax’s solo-play (10 min) (errand running)
  • 5:00 pm—start dinner, feed Pax his solids—5 at 5
  • 5:15 pm—M.E. out of the tub, watch a show or book on CD.  Keep working on dinner.
  • 5:45 pm—Stories and bed for Pax.  Read M.E. stories
  • 6:00 pm—Matt is home, dinnertime
  • 6:45 pm—Matt plays with M.E. while I clean kitchen—dishes, counters, remind myself what is for dinner tomorrow, get tea ready to go for the morning, exercise.
  • 7:30 pm—Story time, M.E. goes to bed.  Mom and Dad time! Time to play on computer, watch a  movie, do date night, read …
  • 9:30 pm—shower and bedtime routine
  • 10:00 pm—get in bed. Be asleep by 11 at the latest (hopefully!)


Why the italics in the break down?
M.E. goes to pre-school a couple days a week.  Items in italics show what we do when she’s home.

M.E.'s first day of preschool.  September 2009



Clean Routine:
 My clean routine assumes I’m starting with the house picked up, including toys put away, kitchen counters cleared and dishes done. 

I find that if I clean for 20 minutes each day that I never get snowed under by what needs cleaned up.  And yes, I can vacuum, sweep and mop in 20 minutes (it takes a while to dry).  Laundry and home improvement take a bit longer J

  • Monday—floors, errands
  • Tuesday—dust, laundry
  • Wednesday—floors, 5 minute bathrooms 
  • Thursday—glass, laundry
  • Friday—floors, dust, bathrooms (I take a bit long today so there is nothing to do on the weekend)
  • Saturday—home projects, errands
  • Sunday—home projects and laundry


House Zone cleaning:
This is a deeper cleaning I do every day for no more than 15 minutes.  Divide your house into zones and focus on REALLY cleaning that zone for 15 minutes a day, 5 days a week.  Start at the ceiling and work down—get cobwebs, wipe baseboard, etc.  If your basic cleaning and tidying is already done, it means you can focus on deeper cleaning.

My Zones :
Week 1--Entry way and bathrooms (2)
Week 2--Kids bedrooms (2)
Week 3--Kitchen, Dining, Living room
Week 4--Master bedroom and laundry room

Again, each zone gets 1 full week of deep cleaning and then it’s off to the next zone.

Need to organize a closet or your kids’ rooms?  That’s BIGGER than a cleaning task; it’s a home project.  Wait to do it until you can devote an hour or two.  Even then, start small (which means NEVER take out more than you can put back in an hour).

Intentional Play Schedule
Monday—Manipulatives (clay, sand and water, etc.)
Tuesday—make believe
Wednesday—board games
Thursday—crafts (painting, coloring, etc.)
Friday—baking

We also do a focused Day of Play activity on the days when M.E. doesn’t have school.

Snowed in at the cabin but with Board Game Day with Grandma Ginny, we were anything but bored!



Errands
I hate running errands so I only do it 1 or maybe 2 times a week.  Get a re-usable bag and put it near the door.  For a week put everything in it that requires an errand: library books, mail, receipts and goodies to return, grocery list, etc.  Once (or twice) a week grab your bag and run errands. Even more time saving, plan your route so you have as few left hand turns as possible (hey, it works for the UPS).

I have a gray Fashion Express bag, similar to below, that I use for my errand bag.  Function+fashion=hot mom


Exercise
2-3 times a week I run on the Elliptical and do Elise Gulan's Straight to the Core 8 minute ab routine.  Do 20 push-ups before bedtime. You won't look like Elise but you'll feel great!

Friday, February 5, 2010

Friday Follow

Friday Follow


We are going strong! Here is the 4th week of Friday Follow. This idea is a fun way to find out about new blogs, find new friends, and grow in followers. Come join the party. We have had a great turnout so far and are finding some wonderful blogs to share.

Welcome to the Friday Follow celebration hosted by One 2 TryHearts Make Families and Midday Escapades! We invite you to join us every Friday to get more blog followers and to follow other interesting blogs. It is all about sharing and having fun.

Here's how YOU can join the celebration:

--Link up your blog name and URL using the MckLinky below. Only need to add on one blog to be seen on all the blog hops. 

 --Follow the Friday Follow hostesses listed in the first 2 slots. This week Hearts Make Families will not be participating due to technical issues. She will be back next week.

--Follow as many blogs as you'd like.

--Take a moment to comment on the blogs telling them you're from Friday Follow.

--Follow back when you get a new follower through Friday Follow.

The Blog Hop is the same at each of our three hosts blogs so you do not have to add your blog at each site. Just one - but you can follow each blog. Follow a few or follow them all.

The list is new each week. The links do not carry over. Please link up each week for new participants to find your blogs. The list is only open to add your blog links on Fridays. It will be visible all week to visit the blogs listed.

Please be patient with following or getting followers. With the tremendous response there are a lot to visit. The Mcklinky will stay here so you can visit blogs at your own pace. 


MckLinky Blog Hop
Friday Follow Blog Hop #4
Hosted by Rita @ One 2 Try Tami @ Hearts Make Families and Lynn @ Midday Escapades . Join us every Friday as we celebrate followers! Link up your blog name and URL below to follow and be followed!
Want to be a part of this Blog Hop? Click here for instructions and code...


Days of Play: tea party

Break out silly shirts, hats, ties, and socks and enjoy a tea party together.

This is an old photo of the Divine Miss M but it is one of my favorite tea party outfits!


You'll need:
clothes to dress up in--boys might like dad's shirts or ties, girls will love your old necklaces
tea set if you have it--if not, pitcher and cups
snack cookies (nilla wafers, Oreos, etc).

Make your kiddos a special drink (kool-aid, ice tea, soda if you drink it) and serve it to them at a tea party.  Show them how to talk with an accent or how to hold their pinkies up.

For Younger Kids
Play dress up and drink milk. Invite teddy.

For Older Kids
Let your children set up the tea party and serve you.  Music and dancing might be warranted.