Wednesday, February 8, 2012

What I Think About: The R Word

Ever think about the words you use?  Everyday we use words that are actually unacceptable and if we thought about what they really meant, I think we'd be appalled that we used them.

Take "retarded," for example.  How many times have you said, "I'm so retarded" or "that's retarded" without thinking about what you are really saying?

Have you ever worked with someone who was, by societal factors, deemed "retarded?"  If so, then you know what a horrible and hurtful putdown this word is.  And if you've seen someone called "retarded" then you know that "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me" is nothing but a LIE!

Words hurt.  They cut, jab, stab, and leave spirits bleeding.  Yet people say it anyway because "everyone says it." Did you get that reasoning?  We keep saying something because everything is saying it?  This circular argument is illogical.  And this word, is hurtful.

Now, the second I suggest we stop saying things like "retarded" peoples' defenses go up and they fight back that this is all "politically correct garbage."  This has nothing to do with being politically correct.  Is has everything to do with being decent, educated human beings.  If you can't think of ways to share your thoughts and feelings without degrading others then I'd like to make a suggestion.  Don't talk.  Seriously, if you can't speak intelligently without using a slur, then do what my 6 year old suggests: "zip it, lock it, and put it in  your pocket."

The Bible refers to the tongue as a powerful weapon so next time you want to use some slang, think twice, get a thesaurus, and re-word!

Thank you Glee!

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Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Days of Play: Valentine's

Honestly, we don't really celebrate Valentine's Day.  I mean we do in that we love each other day but we don't do the forced "romance" date thing.  It's just not our thing.

But I have a mother-in-love who happens to enjoy doting on her grandchildren in the form of gifts for every holiday imaginable (and the grandchildren are totally amenable to this).  So, this year, in return for her Valentine's goodie bags filled with chocolates and stickers, we are going to make her a Valentine's keepsake.

I haven't decided which we'll do (or maybe we'll do all) but here are my Pinterest finalists!

Monday, February 6, 2012

Music Monday: AWOLNATION

AWOLNATION (yes, they spell it in all caps.) is an American electronic rock band.  I started my obsession with them in early June 2011 when I heard the song sail.  The love affair continues.